| BDSM stands for Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission and Sadomasochism. Although it may sound rather crude, some people desire to be submitted in sex, others – to be dominant. If you have a closer look at your sex life, some of you, to their big astonishment, will discover that they have already experimented with some elements of BDSM. Do you remember the sexual excitement you experienced when your partner was caressing you with an ice cube or a feather, your eyes being closed? That is an example of BDSM. It can be either masochistic and savage or highly titillating and exciting. It has a lot in common with a love game where one wants to be slavish and the other dominates. The roles are not imposed upon partners and can be interchanged.
BDSM is not a set of strict rules you are to follow while having sex. Quite the contrary, it is entirely up to you and your partner to choose a scenario which will help you make your secret fantasies and dreams come true. You can use your vivid imagination to the full, no boundaries being set.
BDSM and abuse are opposite notions, since an abuser has no feelings for a victim. Pain and sufferings caused by a dominant sexual partner to a slavish one are not that unendurable for most people. It is similar to massage, which is painful at first, but afterwards it gets you to the top of pleasure.
Below are some love games for you to think about.
- The sexually arousing ice
Ice is one of the popular adult accessories of all times. Blindfold and tie up your sexual partner and let him or her get physical pleasure by running an ice cube all over the body. Or you may take it in your mouth and run your lips and tongue over your partner's body. For anal and vaginal arousal make an ice dildo.
- The enchanting brush
A brush is an excellent means to make your sexual partner aroused. Blindfold and fasten up your sexual partner and touch his or her body with a soft brush and a stiff brush.
- The amazing clothespin
Clothespins will also work wonderfully. Clamp them on the nipples, thighs, genitals and wherever you crave to. Do not remove them right away. Let a thrill go through your partner's body.
- The fabulous flogger
A flogger is a whip intended for flogging sexual partner. A good flogger does not cause any injury. Still, you should be cautious. Do not flog the lower back to avert damaging kidneys. Buttocks, thighs and the upper back are suitable body parts to use your flogger on.
- The luring bondage and restraint
It is recommended to use a regular rope to tie up your sexual partner. A spread-eagle position may be uncomfortable for your sexual partner and even causing pain. For those who give preference to handcuffs, select the ones that are double locked. They will not bind even if you press or sit on them. Nonetheless, always insure that there are no symptoms of numbness, since excessive tightening can bring about poor blood circulation.
Try new things. Your imagination is the limit. |
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